FooteNotes
We are a husband/wife team with many years of what to and not to do experience, who blended our families together. We are both podcasters: Jamma has “The Decided Mind” (growth-minded) podcast & Cara has “Grace2Conquer” (all about faith & fitness) and have a background in leading, coaching, serving at our churches, entrepreneurial activities, and believe in God first in everything we do. We have 6 children who are various places and we have been through every season imaginable it seems. We are here to talk about FINDING BEAUTY IN EVERY SEASON, because God is faithful despite the hardships and circumstances we walk through, and we want to encourage YOU in your marriage as we continue to strengthen ours. We will laugh and cry together with you as you come along with us on this journey together in building strong relationships and growing in who you are as a couple.
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Episodes
Jul 21, 2026
Jul 21, 2026
34 min
On today’s episode, we are discussing our dating life as a married couple and the evolution of how we got to where we are. We also share some as well as some safeguards that we put in place to help protect our marriage (dating rules).
Jan 1, 2026
Jan 1, 2026
28 min
Happy New Year’s Eve!! Today we recap 2025 and talk about the importance of a goal or theme or word for the year rather than a New Year’s resolution. We will share our word for 2026 as well!!
Dec 26, 2025
Dec 26, 2025
30 min
Ladies & Gentlemen, this is for MARRIED couples only, as we discuss the bedroom and s**, but we do have some bits of advice if you aren’t married yet and already crossed that boundary.
Dec 26, 2025
Dec 26, 2025
25 min
Do you struggle to stay present with your spouse when you are stressed or going through trials? When it’s been a long and rough season, do you find yourself checking out? This is for you.
Aug 8, 2025
Aug 8, 2025
30 min
Protecting our marriage and enriching our relationship is key to having a good marriage. In this episode, we will break down some of the top things that we do consistently to grow in our relationship and make it the best marriage. We challenge you and your spouse to create a list of your own perhaps on a date night.
Jul 24, 2025
Jul 24, 2025
25 min
When is it okay to not be there for your friends?
This is the question asked by Jamma today. We converse about what friendship is from a male and female perspective and when we each feel it is ok to walk away from a friendship or just give them space.
Jul 24, 2025
Jul 24, 2025
32 min
Do you complain about your spouse and their faults or shortcomings?
Does your spouse complain about you?
Do you feel like your spouse is falling behind while you are maturing and growing?
Maybe you need a rehaul of how you can help foster the best in your spouse. We are going to get personal today (maybe even a little emotional) as we talk about allowing each other the room to grow individually within your marriage.
I promise, these are great tips that will help you fall in love with each other over and over and be able to serve each other better. You may even realize how much you just like being together!!
May 28, 2025
May 28, 2025
22 min
Have you have hit a plateau in the growth of your marriage? You were cruising along and now you feel like you’re just going through the motions? This episode is for you!
Apr 24, 2025
Apr 24, 2025
33 min
What a loaded topic we discuss today-the ins and outs of what it takes in our opinion to have a fruitful and solid relationship and marriage.
Apr 9, 2025
Apr 9, 2025
25 min
Today we are talking about your love languages. Here is a printable version of the test that will give you your current priority order of them:
https://storage2.snappages.site/WCTW8H/assets/files/5-love-languages-test.pdf
And here is the website to take the quiz online:
https://5lovelanguages.com
Have fun and let us know in the comments or a review what you thought!